The new 24 filial standards lead the public to reflect on the experts to remind the filial piety

"Comparing with the newly announced 'new 24 filial piety' standard, God, I didn't even have a standard, reflect, review..."

The new “24 filial piety” action standards formulated by the National Women’s Federation’s Office for Coordinating Aging have aroused heated debate in the society. Many netizens compared themselves to the 'new 24 filial piety' standard and considered themselves as doing too little. Some netizens also believe that the pressure of life is high and the pace is fast. It is difficult to match the standards of "filial piety." In this regard, scholars of filial piety culture believe that netizens have expressed their feelings of “defamation” and that filial piety culture is still widely recognized in today’s society and has a profound social soil. Experts remind that filial piety is not "according to plans", as long as there is good in mind, filial piety is not difficult.

A netizen called "惭愧"

On the 12th, the National Women's Federation Coordinating Office on Aging, the National Aging Office, and the National Heart Series Activity Committee jointly issued a new version of the “24 filial piety” standard of action. They personally cook for their parents, give their parents a call each week, and listen carefully to parents. The past events, the parents learned to go online and so on.

After carefully reviewing the 24 criteria, some netizens said: “Conscience found that parents always pay for it as a matter of course. It is not easy to think of parents.”

In the one-by-one forwarding, "New 24 filial piety" quickly became a hot search word on the Internet. As of 15:50 on the 14th, the reporter searched through the Internet to over 120,000 related pages, more than 310,000 microblogs.

In the relay, the netizen “doogle children’s shoes” wrote: “It’s really rare for you to do it yourself, oh yeah, to call your parents tonight is estimated to be a tearful twat...” The netizen “fanfun” said : "It's too bad. I'm sorry I'm old and my aging mother. I don't even have a standard. I want to reflect on it. I want to review it."

“惭愧” and “Review” appear in netizens' Threads in more Threads. The netizen “Qiantang Shisan” wrote in the Weibo essay “One hundred good and filial piety is the first priority, and we must abide by ourselves for a lifetime.” Forwarded to several friends.

“Everyone said that raising children can prevent old age, but the children can stay away from other places...” and netizens posted lyrics and videos of “father,” “mother,” “new 24 filial piety,” and other gratitude parents’ gratitude. Moved in a "complete mess," and hissed.

It is not difficult to have good deeds in your heart

"New 24 filial piety" also triggered netizens' feelings of "less time and pressure". Many netizens believe that urban life is now fast-paced and stressful, and there is no time or money to practice filial piety.

Netizens said that they had no time to spend time with their parents. Every year on the Spring Festival, they went home in a hurry and rushed back. It would be difficult to establish a foothold in a big city. They would also like to give parents filial piety. Not enough power.

In view of the current trend of “filial piety”, Xiao Bo, secretary of the Party Committee of Hubei University of Engineering and director of the Hubei Chinese Filial Piety Culture Research Center, believes that the key to filial piety is to have filial piety, that is, to be gracious and considerate, to respect for everlasting, to love, to always be concerned. . "Behavioural filial piety is not 'according to plans', nor is it to say that 24 standards are all considered filial piety, 24 standards only provide a kind of reference and guidance. There is good in heart, filial piety is not difficult."

Xiao Bo believes that China has stepped into an aging society. The phenomenon of getting rich and old and empty nesting is common. We must vigorously develop the economy for the construction of an old-age security system project, but pension is not just an economic issue. What's more important is that We must also have spiritual comfort. We must also “get old and have fun” at the same time.

Some netizens also believe that filial piety is not to allow parents to live a life of food, parents do not worry about their own, do their own thing well, work hard, work hard, enterprising, loyal to the cause, maintain the family, share the worry for the family It is also a kind of filial piety. “We are the backbone of the society and the pillars of our family, 24 standards, if any, will be supplemented if not added,” said the netizen “Sunflowers”.

More netizens believe that Laowu Lao and the old people, young children and young people, be kind to their families, treat other people's "good intentions", is the core of the filial piety culture.

We must also advance with the times

According to Xiao Bo’s introduction, “filial piety” is one of the most important ethical ideas in ancient China. In the Yuan Dynasty, Guo Jujing’s collection recorded “kind of decoction”, “selling burial father’s father”, “carrying ancestral remains of oranges”, “Yongquan Yuelu” and other 24 dutiful sons. The story became a popular reading of ancient China's filial piety. Later, some people published the "Twenty-four Poems for Filial Piety," which spread widely.

Xiao Bo believes that “the times are advancing, and the production and lifestyle of the modern society have undergone tremendous changes. Concepts and ancient teachings such as the inseparability of the land, the parents, and the not-so-distant travel have lost the basis of reality and are based on the standard of '24 filial piety' that was a few hundred years ago. It is impossible to promote the behavior of people today. The content and form of the filial piety culture need to advance with the times."

In the “new 24 filial piety” standard, there are added contents that support unique parents’ remarriage, parents’ learning to access the Internet, purchasing appropriate insurance for their parents, and listening carefully to their parents’ past events. Many netizens believe that these standards have broken through the inherent concepts and have distinctive characteristics of the times.

Xiao Bo also stated at the same time, “The heart of home and everything is also filial piety. We have always advocated son filial piety and fatherliness. Only if the family ethics are rationalized will there be harmony in the family. The family is the cornerstone of society, and ten million families are paralyzed. The entire society is harmonious and orderly."

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