The old man wants to re-find her partner to take care of the disabled wife

He divorced his 38-year-old wife in order to re-find his wife to take care of his disabled ex-wife

"Although I have divorced my wife, I will never abandon her! Now, the other condition that I am looking for is that she can accept my divorced wife and would like to take care of her with me until her lifetime! A senior citizen of Dongguan Humen, 58 years old, said that on August 11th this year, he made a "reluctant" decision under his family's repeated persuasion. He took the disabled disabled wife to the Second People's Court of Dongguan City. Divorce his wife. On August 12, the 38-year-old married couple was formally sentenced to divorce.

Su Laobo told reporters that he chose to do so in the hope that he could find a female partner and take care of his ex-wife together. Since 13 years, he has been working outside most of the time, working to earn money to maintain a family of four lives, and the burden of taking care of disabled and mentally handicapped wife falls on the shoulder of an 81-year-old mother. In order to solve the worries of taking care of his wife, he made this "reluctant" decision.

81-year-old grandmother takes care of children with disabilities

Yesterday morning, the reporter arrived at Su’s old home in the New District of Humen Chigang Nanshe after many setbacks. When the reporter arrived, he did not see Su Laobo, but saw an 81-year-old man. She is sitting in her own yard and working very handy. After learning that the reporter arrived, the old man immediately invited the reporter to the house.

The old man told reporters that he was the mother of Su’s old man and his son had already gone out to work. At home, she and her daughter who had divorced her son were at home. At this time, a woman with only one leg came out from the inside with a walker. She slowly moved forward step by step, and her expression was sluggish. “This is the mentally handicapped child who has divorced her son! Even though she is divorced, she is still my daughter-in-law. I still have to take care of her like I used to! Let's cook for her, help her with laundry, help her It has been 13 years since showering......... I don’t know how long I can live, but how long can I take care of her...” Here, the old man sobbed.

A car accident caused his wife's mental retardation

Chen Jiandi old man told reporters that his son is a very honest, kind, capable man. But she never thought that her son was miserable and miserable throughout his life. On August 10, 1972, the son married his daughter-in-law. There is a man and a woman born later. When her grandson was in her teens, she contracted leukemia. One day in 1998, the daughter-in-law took her son to the hospital for a doctor's visit. He took a motorcycle on his way home and was knocked down by a bus. The daughter-in-law and grandson were seriously injured in a car accident. The daughter was forced to amputate her right leg and was severely injured. She lost her memory and became mentally retarded. Her life could not take care of herself. Since then, the daughter-in-law needs their family to take care of.

In 2005, unfortunately once again, Sun Zi died of leukemia. After the grandson died, the grandparents left their home. After that, they never contacted their family again.

Since then, the entire family’s burden has fallen on one of the son’s shoulders. In order to earn money to support his family, his son ran around to earn money during the day and took care of his disabled wife at night. Chen Jiandi looked at all this in his eyes and he felt pain in his heart. So when the son went out to work, he actively took care of his daughter-in-law.

During this time, she repeatedly persuaded her son to divorce him from his daughter-in-law. But his son's rejection once and again.

Divorced with her husband, the child has no opinion

Today, Chen Jiandi is 81 years old and she is unable to continue to look after her daughter-in-law. In addition, the granddaughter is now in college and will graduate next year. Nowadays, taking care of their children's children has become a problem for their family.

After negotiating with the parents, siblings and their families, the daughter-in-law decided to divorce her son and daughter-in-law and let her son marry another daughter-in-law to let her take care of her son's ex-wife with her son for a lifetime.

How does the daughter-in-law look at how her husband divorces herself? Maybe it was because of a serious head injury that caused her sometimes sober and sometimes vague. When the reporter asked about this, Su’s old wife appeared relatively calm and nodded. He agreed with the authentic Cantonese and had no opinion.

Citizens:

Good heart, you can find a good woman

The reporter interviewed several citizens at random. They expressed their sympathy for the old man of Su. However, most citizens said that it was more difficult for Su Laobo to find such a female partner. After all, the female partner married him and still wanted more happiness than to take care of a disabled patient. However, some citizens think that Su is a good old man and should find a good partner and wish him an early realization of his wish.

dialogue:

Yesterday morning, Su Oldman took time off to the work unit to return home. Su Laobo was a bit hesitant and worried when he saw the reporter. He said that because the media had previously reported about his divorce and reunification with his wife, the villagers seemed to be puzzled by his approach. After being repeatedly enlightened by reporters, Su old man finally agreed to be interviewed by reporters.

If you find a female partner, you will never abandon your ex-wife

Reporter: Ever since your wife was unfortunately injured and disabled, have you always been taking care of this family and taking care of your disabled wife?

Su old man: Yes! Since the wife was disabled, life can't take care of herself! All my family’s income is maintained by me alone!

Reporter: Is life so tired? Have you considered giving up your wife?

Su Laobo: Life is really tired, but I never thought of giving up my wife. Although my wife’s family had previously allowed me to divorce my wife and find a woman’s partner to live, I was repeatedly refused!

Reporter: What made you decide to divorce your wife this time?

Su Laobo: (in silence for a time) Divorced his wife, although his wife agreed, but I still do not want to do this, really, this is a reluctant thing! However, the mother is 81 years old. She should have taken care of her mother. Now she has to take care of the disabled wife. I was particularly sad when I thought about it. When one day my mother cannot move, then who will take care of his wife! This problem is very realistic. For this reason, I promised to divorce my wife.

Reporter: After she divorced her wife, how did she do it?

Su old man: Although divorced from his wife, her life will not change. She still lives at home and lives with my mother. If one day, I really find a female partner, then my ex-wife will be taken care of by my wife and I will live together.

Reporter: Do you think that you can find such a female partner?

Su old man: (hesitated for a long time) is not sure. But if it does, I will not give up.

Reporter: Now what are your requirements for your partner?

Su Laobo: The first thing is that people are better! Must have love! Do not look down on my disabled, mentally handicapped ex-wife, let alone "lost it".

Reporter: What are the conditions for female companions?

Su Laobo: The female companion is forty years old and has a long, unlimited portrait. Even if she has a child to bring her to live with, she can.

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